Being a teenager is tough enough – but when you add attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) to the mix, the typical challenges can become even more daunting. ADHD, formerly known as ADD, is a condition that makes it exceptionally difficult for both children and adults to concentrate on tasks, pay attention, sit still, and control impulsive behavior.
Lynn, mother of 14-year-old Zane and diagnosed with ADHD two years ago, shared her experience, saying, “Having a child trying to navigate the teenage years is hard enough; throw in ADHD to the mix, and it’s a challenge for all of us.” Lynn initially struggled to identify Zane’s ADHD since he was getting decent grades and did not fit her stereotype of a child with ADHD.
Dr. F. Elamin, who treats Zane, is a pediatrician at Hamilton Community Health Network’s North Pointe Clinic. He explains that there are two types of ADHD: Hyperactive or Impulsive ADHD, and Inattentive ADHD, like the type Zane has. “Some parents may associate ADHD with children who are ‘jumping off the walls’ or just cannot sit still, but many kids and adults with ADHD have the inability to focus or concentrate on a task or several tasks in a row,” Dr. Elamin explains.
“People with ADHD often have underlying neurological issues such as anxiety and depression. In fact, teenagers with ADHD are at a higher risk of suicide.”
F. Elamin, MB, BS
Lynn initially interpreted Zane’s behaviors as laziness and a lack of caring. However, upon overhearing Zane say, “I hate my brain” to himself, Lynn realized there might be more to his struggles and promptly scheduled an appointment with Dr. Elamin.
Dr. Elamin has treated many children over the years who have dealt with ADHD. He stresses the importance of early intervention. “People with ADHD often have underlying neurological issues such as anxiety and depression. In fact, teenagers with ADHD are at a higher risk of suicide.” He encourages parents to discuss their child’s school, grades and behaviors with their pediatrician regularly, as this helps to effectively diagnose and treat them.
Though it had taken about nine years of struggles, Lynn and Zane found relief in understanding the root of his struggles. However, they also recognized that the journey was not over. Dr. Elamin recommended Zane and Lynn each identify the biggest challenges Zane faces, then choose one skill to improve. By choosing one area to focus on, it is not as overwhelming.
Since there is currently no cure for ADHD, treatment focuses on symptom management. Symptoms may change with age, and teens and adults often require ongoing treatment to effectively manage them.
For those with a teen or loved one diagnosed with ADHD, it is essential to remember that it is not a flaw or weakness. Rather, it is about helping them manage their condition. Lynn reflects, “Living with ADHD is a challenge at times, but it is just a part of Zane. So, we keep working on skills, and just yesterday I found him cleaning and organizing his room. I was ecstatic!”
Dr. Elamin’s best advice for parents is patience, patience, patience. “Kids cannot change their neurodevelopmental disorders. As a parent or caregiver, provide them with the tools or skills needed to manage their symptoms. Seek treatment and work to manage it, just as you would with any health problem.”
By fostering understanding, patience and support, families can help their teens with ADHD navigate the challenges they face and thrive despite their condition.
Developmental Skills for Managing ADHD
- Hyperactive children need to learn to slow down and develop skills to calm themselves or burn off excess energy.
- Impulsive children need to learn patience and to think before they act. They may also need to learn to regulate their emotions.
- Teens struggling with focus and attentiveness should work on developing organizational skills and time management techniques.
If you suspect your child may be struggling with a form of ADHD, call Hamilton Community Health Network at 810.406.4246. Dr. Elamin’s practice is at the North Pointe Clinic, plus Hamilton has a significant behavioral health department with therapists who can help your child manage his or her symptoms of ADHD.
