When the word “couple” comes up in a romantic context, people often think of two people united in love. After all, “couple” is one word, not two. And it’s true: couples are a unified force that will weather life’s joys and challenges together. The traditional wedding format emphasizes this idea, from its matching wedding bands to white dresses and black tuxedos. The wedding uniform, if you will. However, as they plan their weddings, more and more engaged people are paying attention to the other part of the definition: two people. Those two people are united by love and will walk through life together, yes, but both partners also have their individuality— something they bring to the relationship that enriches it, something that brings them closer. So, these are some of the ways that new couples are celebrating both their unity and each other during the biggest day of their lives.

One of the most—if not the most—iconic aspects of the modern wedding ceremony is the bridal dress. However, weddings aren’t just about one person, but rather, the new couple and even those they’ve invited to celebrate with them. Similarly, the wedding aesthetic isn’t just about the dress: it’s how everything from shoes and hairstyles to jewelry and accessories all work together to create one beautiful, cohesive ensemble. The same goes for the ceremony and reception—how decor, food, and the people present create one unforgettable experience. So, here are some of the things brides should keep in mind when assembling their perfect day, along with expected wedding trends for the new year.